If your dualshock 3 controller is paired with a ps3 first unplug the ps3 from its power source or else it can cause syncing conflicts. Choose internet connections and select enabled.

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How to connect laptop to ps3 wirelessly. Select settingsnetwork settings on the xmb and click the x button. Go to settings in the ps3 menu and scroll down to network settings. This video will show you how to connect your playstation 3 to your windows computer via wifi which will allow you in turn to stream media from your computer to your television. Plug in controller and bluetooth dongle. If the router has security you must input your password. Find the playstation 3 controller in the list and check it too.
How to connect your computer to your ps3 step 1. Download and run scptoolkit setupexe. Check the wireless controller option. Check if the install bluetooth driver box is checked. Youll see a list of all devices attached to your computer eg keyboards mouses webcams etc. Now youll need to provide your routers security settings.
Download install scp toolkit from the link provided. Watch this how to for a step by step walkthrough. I would be showing you hot to connect your playstation 3 with your laptop so you can watch video listen to music or look through your picture. If the ps3 is connected to a modem using an ethernet cable the wireless function will be turned off. Like you did with the dualshock 3 click the arrow next to choose bluetooth dongles to install and then find your bluetooth device in the list. Internet connection in the network settings list will say enabled once you are connected.
Make sure your ps3 is connected to the same network via ethernet or wireless as your computer. Scroll to system information and then network settings. Go to settings network settings media server connection on your ps3 and set it to enabled. Open the system settings menu on the ps3. The number section pertains to the usb port that your controller is using. Your ps3 controller is the option marked wireless controller interface number here.
If your computer doesnt have built in bluetooth support plug in your wireless bluetooth dongle. The last song is from jini. Plug the dualshock 3 into your pc via a mini usb cable. If you do not have the space to connect a wire to transfer computer files from the pc to the ps3 then you can do it wirelessly over your wireless network and using windows media player. Go to internet connection settings and select your wireless router from the list of available connections.